You're frustrating me! You KNOW what to not do, and you do it anyways (texting right away, emailing invites, etc..) STOP IT!
COME HERE BEFORE YOU MAKE ANY MOVE. You're going to smother the poor girl.
Any chance you can ask for a ridulously high price for the house and lessen your chances of selling (without being too obvious)? Would your w be open to waiting until the market improves. It could be worth an additional $100,000 or so if you wait.
Do you agree tongiht i just goto the gym and i go home.. if she finds me fine.. if not pretend like she's not there?