You're frustrating me! You KNOW what to not do, and you do it anyways (texting right away, emailing invites, etc..) STOP IT!
COME HERE BEFORE YOU MAKE ANY MOVE. You're going to smother the poor girl.
Any chance you can ask for a ridulously high price for the house and lessen your chances of selling (without being too obvious)? Would your w be open to waiting until the market improves. It could be worth an additional $100,000 or so if you wait.
I know.. no more (I will come here and write what i feel before doing anything) .. tomorrow should be interesting, i go for a massage.. and then W has me pencilled in at her shop for facial and pedicure(make jokes now).. First time since the bomb i will see any of her co-workers , and i know them all very well.. sort of scary.. i will just walk in and pretend nothing's going on.. when her co-worker asks me about R, i will change the subject.. sound ok?
The house is allready going to be listed super high.. the realtor told me if we list we could lose 100K in this market.. W might be willing to wait it out, but she says "it makes it hard to move on with her life"...
I don't see us getting any bites at the price we are going to list at.. (realtor hopes we R and live happily ever after he told me, he is a friend of W's cousin)
