Ok, then I can see the cat note. Our cat nibbles, so there is either food in the dish, or there needs to be.
No one can say why she is asking about what you are doing. Trying to figure it out will only hurt your head. Answer the question, as far as you want to (don't lie), and don't worry about it. It could be good or bad, I could make up a story either way. It doesn't matter.
She asked " what are you doing friday?" "oh yeah it's your cousins party i replied "i have different plans now".. she used to wall climb.. when we first met..
i shouldnt have told her but i did "i am going to play squash and rock climb with sis in law BF"
she replied "rock climb?" (she knows i am scared of heights
then she said " Saturday I am going to the mountains with "her cousin(who is also a good friend of mine) .. i didn't respond.. she said what are you doing (she allready knows the answer " i am going to so and so's family BBQ"
She said the realtor is coming over sunday isn't he.. what time are you going for the thing with the dogs.. i replied " the realtor is supposed to call me but yes sunday he is coming over"
as hard and crappy as it was, i didn't let it show i don't want the house for sale.
W just texted me " see you at the gym after work" ..
i got excited sitting here at my desk..
then she sent me a text that wasn't meant for me, about her plans friday.. i replied "that wasn't meant for me was it? " lol.. it was nothing major anyways..
Hopefully the awful market prevents the sale.. or we get lowballed (in which case i would keep our dream home that we spent a year building...) not going to give it away
sawks, you're doing great! Just use the Yoga to try and calm down a bit. She's probably used to you freaking out over stuff, so be calm and cool.
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK
You're frustrating me! You KNOW what to not do, and you do it anyways (texting right away, emailing invites, etc..) STOP IT!
COME HERE BEFORE YOU MAKE ANY MOVE. You're going to smother the poor girl.
Any chance you can ask for a ridulously high price for the house and lessen your chances of selling (without being too obvious)? Would your w be open to waiting until the market improves. It could be worth an additional $100,000 or so if you wait.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
You're frustrating me! You KNOW what to not do, and you do it anyways (texting right away, emailing invites, etc..) STOP IT!
COME HERE BEFORE YOU MAKE ANY MOVE. You're going to smother the poor girl.
Any chance you can ask for a ridulously high price for the house and lessen your chances of selling (without being too obvious)? Would your w be open to waiting until the market improves. It could be worth an additional $100,000 or so if you wait.
I know.. no more (I will come here and write what i feel before doing anything) .. tomorrow should be interesting, i go for a massage.. and then W has me pencilled in at her shop for facial and pedicure(make jokes now).. First time since the bomb i will see any of her co-workers , and i know them all very well.. sort of scary.. i will just walk in and pretend nothing's going on.. when her co-worker asks me about R, i will change the subject.. sound ok?
The house is allready going to be listed super high.. the realtor told me if we list we could lose 100K in this market.. W might be willing to wait it out, but she says "it makes it hard to move on with her life"...
I don't see us getting any bites at the price we are going to list at.. (realtor hopes we R and live happily ever after he told me, he is a friend of W's cousin)
You're frustrating me! You KNOW what to not do, and you do it anyways (texting right away, emailing invites, etc..) STOP IT!
COME HERE BEFORE YOU MAKE ANY MOVE. You're going to smother the poor girl.
Any chance you can ask for a ridulously high price for the house and lessen your chances of selling (without being too obvious)? Would your w be open to waiting until the market improves. It could be worth an additional $100,000 or so if you wait.
Do you agree tongiht i just goto the gym and i go home.. if she finds me fine.. if not pretend like she's not there?
