WOW!! progress w H? Keeping my PMA

[pisces9]

i agree- i did apologize for a few things that were warranted- yet this isnt our first go around..
we had another separation 3 years ago- i was the one who was angry all the time and depressed....
i did a 180 ever the past few years and he started to not be able to feel connected to me- its funny- i got healthy and he couldn't handle it?

because he had to look in the mirror...
so i can see it slowly happening..yesterday had some big plusses- i was able to say gently that he think about the rates of D's...etc.


he said you are right- i dont know why so high-- i just let him ponder all this...

its crazy- he hasnt really ben angry and i actually wish he would be mad- he needs to let it out! he even said that yesterday- maybe i should have gotten mad at you so you heard me...i said let it out!

the balme game is nuts and so immature- he args mon me and how i was raised?? huh? how old are we? and ps. what about your family? no issues there??

if you focus n the SH*T you will see SH*T! focus on the love and positivity and thats what youll see :-)

so the more space i give him emotionally and acknowledge his reaching out- i think he will come around...he has a LONG way to go.

i agree- LOOK in the mirror Mr!!