The compliments shouldn't stop, just that things cannot continue on the same pace. When a man is in love and courting, his focus is completely on that one, sometimes to the detriment of work etc. He is also living in a fantasy world, similar to an affair, but correct morally. Once marriage comes, for an honorable man, he shifts to the key role of provider etc. With a wife he has assumed a duty for the rest of his life. It can be hard to retain the habit of pursuit during a marriage. Remember, you sleep in the same bed each night, deal with the kids, mortgage etc.
I am not trying to be critical, just helping you adjust your standard to a real world level. I want to see you succeed.
