FA, I am so happy to see your post up here again. I was wondering how things were going with your sitch. Now I know.
I am happy that you are being so strong and standing up for the ultimatum that you believe in.
I hope and pray that your H and mine both can live up to our expectations of them.
I have told my H what I dont agree with (him being at the bars all the time still), and he says he is trying to work on it and stay away from them more,but he always comes up with some excuse to go there anyway. I wish he wanted to be more invested in us, than his own selfish self medicating.
Well it looks like we are both piecing now, and this part is SOOOOOOOOO hard. I really want to have a better M than before, but right now it is only better for my H (due to his selfishness) and I am stuck dealing with a lot of hurt and rejection that he doesnt want to really talk about. It is like my H has the best of two worlds right now, freedom at the bars + a wife that loves him and welcomes him when ever he wants.
I am hoping you and I can help each other through this piecing experience with advise and encouragement.
I cant wait to see if your H follows through with ending it with the OW for good. I hope so for your sake. TIPPER
