Ummm......running and klm, the reason I'm on here is to BUST a divorce, not have one and then realize I didn't want it. I'm trying to be honest with my thoughts. I'm here for encouragement and help. Yes, maybe I need to hear things over and over...I think I may have even said that....
Sheesh oh peetie, aren't me telling you my negative thoughts and positive thoughts showing you I want it, but being honest about what is going through my head? I could lie and say I'm doin my durndest and I just lovvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvve everything about my H and even though I "fell in love" with OM I value everything about my M and that makes it all sooooo wonderful. Talking about me in "third person" in my own thread is pretty disrespectful as well. Sorry, ya got me ticked.
Near, maybe I needed to hear that the compliments are natural to stop, etc. Before my marriage I lived with my parents. Not much in the way of dating and pretty naive.