Lola! We can certainly have kebabs! That sounds good!
Sawks, it's hard to say how long before she told me that, since there isn't really a "bomb" date. This is a really long term situation, I wouldn't try to draw any parallels!
Space and time are the best tools you have. She wants the space, you have the time!
Plus the hidden gem of "bad housing market"... maybe a blessing in disguise.. noone knows..
she wants the space yet she replies " see you at the gym" she knows I am there from 8-10 tonight... yet she will be there after her work at 9
