Does anyone in this thread have OM/OW in picture. Dont know if my W has OM, but that changes feelings a lot I would think on the WAS and thier thinking/intentions. Seems when they find somebody else, there is nothing the LBS can possibly do but sit around and wait but it might always be too late.

Wish I knew all the answers in my sitch and how to pursue my W and make things better.

my stories

M-31
W-28
S7 D2.5
T 8, M 4
W filed 2-14-08
D on hold 3/08
D off hold 5/08
D to be final on/by Nov 08
Anniv 9-4 looked hopeful