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Originally Posted By: redsawks44
i don't know if my W hates me...


I know that feeling. I think right now my H hates everyone, and he said he hates himself most of all. But, hate is better than apathy, I have to agree.

My friend said Summer Solstice is tomorrow and so everyone is going crazy. Im not sure what that means, but it would seem that it is true~!!!


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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I think I posted my good news a while ago.....

A few months ago W said she didn't hate me.

Or course, based on what we just were talking about, that might be a bad thing, if she doesn't love me, and she doesn't hate me, what is there?

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Okay I know I'm late, but do you have ke-bobs at this BBQ?


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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Originally Posted By: dry_heat
I think I posted my good news a while ago.....

A few months ago W said she didn't hate me.

Or course, based on what we just were talking about, that might be a bad thing, if she doesn't love me, and she doesn't hate me, what is there?


Jeff,

How long before she told you that? I'd like to know what's in her head, but that isn't the way things go..

She knows I love her.. she sees i still wear the ring.. one thing i did wrongly, is i got bored one night and went on a dating site.. went to bed, she found that i had been on the site (we met on this site)...

She said " go and date if you want just don't bring anyone here"

i replied " nope no plan on dating .. was bored is all"

Am i right in thinking giving her space gives her alot of time to think about all we have been thru together?

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Lola!
We can certainly have kebabs! That sounds good!

Sawks, it's hard to say how long before she told me that, since there isn't really a "bomb" date. This is a really long term situation, I wouldn't try to draw any parallels!

Space and time are the best tools you have. She wants the space, you have the time!

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Originally Posted By: dry_heat
Lola!
We can certainly have kebabs! That sounds good!

Sawks, it's hard to say how long before she told me that, since there isn't really a "bomb" date. This is a really long term situation, I wouldn't try to draw any parallels!

Space and time are the best tools you have. She wants the space, you have the time!


Plus the hidden gem of "bad housing market"... maybe a blessing in disguise.. noone knows..

she wants the space yet she replies " see you at the gym" she knows I am there from 8-10 tonight... yet she will be there after her work at 9

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Don't overthink it! And don't have any expectations.

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Originally Posted By: dry_heat
Don't overthink it! And don't have any expectations.


Just go do my workout, and i won't even look for her, i'll
workout (yoga).. and then i will goto the change room and then leave.. no looking for her.. if she comes and finds me, that's ok i assume? if not, she wants to walk the dogs after that..

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It's totally different if she finds you. But, even then, don't drag it out.

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if she finds me, just say hello and leave? Chances are i'll be in yoga, and she'll be on the treadmill (different areas of gym)

she wants to walk the dogs.. she knows i am off tomorrow.... what to do what to do..

again this is something new for me, so i apologize for sounding "dumb"

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