Saw a tiny bit of this today. H is insisting that our landlord gives us back our deposit they day we move out. The landlord, per the lease, has 21 days to do that after July 31st. I'm okay with this. H threw a fit about it yesterday. Today he called me and said...okay, I'm going to call (landlord) and tell him that he needs to have a check in hand the day he does the walk through....We didn't get 21 days to get him the deposit!.....I'm telling him either he has a check in hand or we don't send him a July rent check and we call it even. I said, Now why would we do that. Then H said...Well, it's your money that we used, so I guess it's your concern. Man he's making me angry. This is soooo typical of H. He'll throw this big fit, make a mess of things and then does nothing to straighten things out, smooth things over or work things out. I can guarantee I'll get a call from the landlord asking what's going on. I'll be the one to handle it. I don't know why he's so worked up about getting a few hundred dollars back. I know that he has his DUI to pay for now, but I also know that he had close to $3000-4000K in the bank and he just took $2600 out of his retirement (as a loan). So, he has to have in the neighborhood of $6,000 available to him. What's the big deal of waiting a couple weeks for a few hundred dollars?.....well, it's more than that but it's not 6k.
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day
