I am a WAW, but do I really want to be?

[lost3031]

Thanks for your reply, Flipper! You're right - it does not feel right to to through the divorce right now. I'm not saying that there will never come a point when it will feel right, but right now, I don't feel I'm ready. The only reason I filed the paperwork was because my husband felt he needed some closure on the matter. Personally, I feel that 4 1/2 months is way too short of a time frame to give up on a 9 1/2 year marriage! I know that he's hurting - I'm hurting, too! I just don't know how to convince him to give me more time to get things figured out for me - because until I get things figured out for me, I really don't see any chance of "us" making it work...