Now you just need a Harley!!! Heck, I'll probably run into you at the Sagebrush Cantina in Calabasas. You'll have tattoos all over your arms and some young chick on the back! Hee hee!!!!
Too funny. Yes, go with that MLC!!! It helps with detachment and drives the WAS crazy. Also, it's kind of fun. I used to joke that it was like being 16 again, but with the added benefit of a VISA, and being able to go drink. Sheesh!!! After being the "upstanding soccer mom" who only took a drink once a year, and had never even been in a bar (except a fancy resturant bar) in her life.... boy did I do a 180!!!
As me and my girlfriends sometimes say, although it was a painful and horrible time (I found other moms through work, and past friends, who were in the midst of divorce), in some ways it was the best summer of our lives. We had enormous freedom and fun. We took what we all felt was one of the most painful events in our lives, supported each other, had fun together (flirting and scoping out the guys!!!) and ultimately found strength and peace.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
