I understand strong, that's great. Honestly, though, it's irritating that women have this elaborate testing system. She tries to dominate you, telling you all the while how soft and cuddly and sensitive she wants you to be, and if you don't guess right and push back, you fail her little test. It just seems like life could be a lot simpler if she could just say "I want you to be in charge. Please take over." Or--and I realize a lot of people are going to say I'm really far over the edge now--what if, since she doesn't want to be in charge or push her husband around, she simply chose not to do it? Madness?