Ok, then I can see the cat note. Our cat nibbles, so there is either food in the dish, or there needs to be.
No one can say why she is asking about what you are doing. Trying to figure it out will only hurt your head. Answer the question, as far as you want to (don't lie), and don't worry about it. It could be good or bad, I could make up a story either way. It doesn't matter.
She asked " what are you doing friday?" "oh yeah it's your cousins party i replied "i have different plans now".. she used to wall climb.. when we first met..
i shouldnt have told her but i did "i am going to play squash and rock climb with sis in law BF"
she replied "rock climb?" (she knows i am scared of heights
then she said " Saturday I am going to the mountains with "her cousin(who is also a good friend of mine) .. i didn't respond.. she said what are you doing (she allready knows the answer " i am going to so and so's family BBQ"
She said the realtor is coming over sunday isn't he.. what time are you going for the thing with the dogs.. i replied " the realtor is supposed to call me but yes sunday he is coming over"
as hard and crappy as it was, i didn't let it show i don't want the house for sale.