Sugar.... I'm sitting here wanting to write to you because I am in your sitch....well kinda......
I will make it short....I have been married almost 24 years and with my H for 30....I got the bomb last June....knew my H was having an affair Jan/07...thought we were working on that...but I guess not...H moved out in January 08.....in March of 08 I found out through an anonymous email that my H had a son WHO IS 8 YEARS OLD!! H kept this a secret for 8 years....it all came out and my girls won't talk to him...they feel like 8 years of their lives have been stolen from them...It's awful....I struggle with it every day....
My H after all these years could not come to me and tell me...he held it in and now we are paying the price....
Yes...I too have told people that I feel like I belong on the Jerry Springer show....I feel like I'm in a bad dream and I want to wake up so bad.....
Thought I'd share since it was so close to your sitch...
Treese
Treese
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity