Not sure how to say this, but LOSE the dang weight, ok? Then that will not be a factor and you will feel better in general. No excuses, dude. 100 is too much extra weight.
(no offense)
Just couldn't resist, could you?
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Well, think of your high school girlfriends, when you were too young to have sex yet but were on the verge of it. Those girls loved to kiss, no? Did you not spend literally hours making out with girlfriends in high school, night after night? And then one day, she suddenly says "I'm ready to have sex with you" and you're like "woo hoo!"