I'm in complete agreement with Ali Jeff. Change something up unless you are just fine with the status quo. I don't think you really are. You love your W, right? You want the best for her, right? Aren't you what is best for her? Make sure she sees that.
I know the diet plan is for your health but it doesn't hurt in the looks department either does it? Exercise....you indicated you aren't doing any. I know you have a bad knee so what about a bike? Eliptical? Weights? Those are things that won't impact your knee too badly. I have a bum knee that likes to dislocate the kneecap every now and then. It's just lovely!
Do what you need to Jeff, but I'm just saying that things seem so stuck for you. Make a change even if you don't think it's going to spark anything. It could just spark something for you alone. Wouldn't that be just as good?
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
(((Jeff))) I missed the BBQ but I wanted to say HI and hope you are having a great day.
Originally Posted By: mishka422
Do what you need to Jeff, but I'm just saying that things seem so stuck for you. Make a change even if you don't think it's going to spark anything. It could just spark something for you alone. Wouldn't that be just as good?
You never know until you try. You are doing such good things for yourself, who knows what might be? Keep up the good stuff Jeff. Corey
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
Change something up unless you are just fine with the status quo. I don't think you really are. You love your W, right? You want the best for her, right? Aren't you what is best for her? Make sure she sees that.
The status quo is no good. Do I love W? Hmmm, how about this... I love her, but I'm not in love with her! Right now I don't like her much.
I don't think she has any interest in seeing if I am best for her, or not. I think she is wanting to be best for herself, and everyone else, except the younger two boys, can take a flying leap. At least that's what it feels like to me. OK, so that's pretty negative!
Originally Posted By: mishka422
I know the diet plan is for your health but it doesn't hurt in the looks department either does it? Exercise....you indicated you aren't doing any. I know you have a bad knee so what about a bike? Eliptical? Weights? Those are things that won't impact your knee too badly. I have a bum knee that likes to dislocate the kneecap every now and then. It's just lovely!
Ick! At least all my knee parts stay in place!
I need to do some exercise. I'm going to start getting out and golfing, though that isn't a huge amount. I need to find something that I will do that I can do inside too. Riding a bike right now is pretty beastly outside!
I am working on doing things for me, a little at a time. I don't expect any sparks from her, I just don't see it. But it is going to be her loss!
Corey! We can have another BBQ any time!
Mr. Sawks- You need to get happy with you, and it will show. Keep doing the things you are doing. Don't tell her, just do them. She'll see the results.
Change something up unless you are just fine with the status quo. I don't think you really are. You love your W, right? You want the best for her, right? Aren't you what is best for her? Make sure she sees that.
The status quo is no good. Do I love W? Hmmm, how about this... I love her, but I'm not in love with her! Right now I don't like her much.
I don't think she has any interest in seeing if I am best for her, or not. I think she is wanting to be best for herself, and everyone else, except the younger two boys, can take a flying leap. At least that's what it feels like to me. OK, so that's pretty negative!
Originally Posted By: mishka422
I know the diet plan is for your health but it doesn't hurt in the looks department either does it? Exercise....you indicated you aren't doing any. I know you have a bad knee so what about a bike? Eliptical? Weights? Those are things that won't impact your knee too badly. I have a bum knee that likes to dislocate the kneecap every now and then. It's just lovely!
Ick! At least all my knee parts stay in place!
I need to do some exercise. I'm going to start getting out and golfing, though that isn't a huge amount. I need to find something that I will do that I can do inside too. Riding a bike right now is pretty beastly outside!
I am working on doing things for me, a little at a time. I don't expect any sparks from her, I just don't see it. But it is going to be her loss!
Corey! We can have another BBQ any time!
Mr. Sawks- You need to get happy with you, and it will show. Keep doing the things you are doing. Don't tell her, just do them. She'll see the results.
Thanks Jeff.. I am working hard on making ME happy...
I know the feeling of loving someone and not being in love with them. (((Jeff)))
We are all so proud of you!!!
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
I wonder how you can love someone and hate them at the same time.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
