Does a WAW want you to fight for them?

[cz946]

This Saturday is w Birthday. Several of our friends are all going to dinner and bars afterwards. She told me she did not mind if I went and copied me on the email to friends. I am planning to go. I am going to have a good time and act really happy. Besides I made a movie of her pictures with family and friends and want to give it to her when our friends are there to watch as well.

We have talked several times through email and a few times on the phone the last few days. Getting along really good. So I sent her a txt last night, "Going to the bar for a beer if your interested." Haven't heard a thing since.

I think she brings me in to a certain point and then pushes back. I guess it does give me false hope, maybe she is trying to avoid that. I am trying to show her that I have learned so much over the last several months and that I can be the person she needs me to be.

Am I to pushy, How should I handle the Bday dinner and time at the bar?

She tells me this is the hardest decision she has ever made and is the best for her. She needs to find herself. She says she is a much stronger person now and could not have left me a year ago. She tells me to stop searching for and excuse, it just happened and we are both to blame. But on the other hand, she tells me she is depressed and crys every night. She shows very little emotion around me. I just want to tell her lets give another shot, we can make it work. Her response is its to late, and I fell out of love with you.