Do the cats eat all their food? If she can see they are fed, she doens't need a not.
Less contact, not more.
Nope they eat all their food... tomorrow i am off, so they'll get fed when I get up (W works at 9, but i will be up.. will make sure i am downstairs first to feed animals)
The one thing she did say to one of her friends a few weeks back " he's a really good guy, but not for me, too many vices"
i have turned those "vices" into exercize, opening up about my feelings to friends, being honest every single day.