Start of the long and bumpy road........

[Neilh23]

Twindad...

HOly cow. you have many of the same issues that I do! My wife says i was controlling in exactly tyhe same ways...that i never took her ideas into consideration..etc. My IC says that it was a very subtle issue that developed over the course of time...esp. since we had kids.

It's a difficult journey, that's for sure. It's taken me along time (almost 3 months) to get to the point where we are really starting to examine my inner issues. My IC has really helped shed some light onto my sitch....the only thing I don't like is that he never really seems to give me hope that my W and I will reconcile....it's weird.