Well, it sounds like the session went well. Is this a weekly thing? Remember that you cannot change your wife. If she is "her own worst enemy" there is absloutely nothing you can do about it. You need to work on you and she may follow suit and change too. Remember what MWD refers to as the "butterfly effect": a butterfly flapping it's wings in Brazil can cause a tornado in Texas.
Jen
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*