I was looking for some art supplies about a month ago and found some love letters from my husband, but not written to me - they were to his college girlfriend. I also found some old photos of them at a tropical resort. She was gorgeous. Like movie star gorgeous. It made me want to puke. I never received love letters from him...

Anyway, the point I want to make is, I think it's important to keep those letters (but put them somewhere the future Mrs. lodo will never find them!). It's part of your history. Cherish the good stuff and move beyond the icky.

You the man, lodo.


M: 37
H: 36
Married: Aug 13, 2004
Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008
Reconciled: September 2008
Current: Ambivalence