Lynn, I doubt that she has come to any revelation that will makes sense to you. What she is pushing for is that she "needs" you to be ok about the way things are. That is what I feel where she states that for once she can speak and be heard. She is puzzled that you can't see what she can see and feel. There is a conflict between core beliefs (morality) here regardless of whether or not her C has told her what she wants to hear. If she can recruit you then she will not have to deal with this conflict.
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Plus doesn't she have a point. How can we ever make it work if we can't talk?
Talk is just that... talk. Having a relationship with someone else speaks volumes. Step back to see the big picture.
Lynn,
BINGO. Please re-read this over and over five times. THIS is what I didn't have the time to tell you earlier.
She's looking to gaslight you right now. Don't play the game.
