Ooops. I just noticed that you're still living together. OK. It's OK to feed the cats and walk the dogs, just don't wait for her to go with you. Do it on your own, don't even invite her. She'll ask to go with you if she wants to.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."