red, I wouldn't initiate unless you're SURE your w would be open to it. And, I don't think your wife is ready yet. It could push her running the other way. Give her time, and plenty of it.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
