I went out last night on a GAL activity and had a blast. I am doing so again on Saturday. I am avoiding "dating" but am interacting with adults, having fun and laughing once in a while. This sounds bad for DBing but I am really starting to see that things will be pretty good on the other side. I assume that this is being emotionally prepared for the other side.
Actually, this is what DBing is all about. DB is for YOU - you must take care of yourself first! You want to save your M but you are strong enough to move on if it is not saved. D is a piece of paper. Many couples have reconciled even after D.
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I told her that she needs to start paying her private cell bill (and others)today. She should have been paying it all along.
There is nothing wrong with setting boundaries. She will have to pay her own way after D so she may as well start TODAY.
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz
