I'm so sorry I was asleep yesterday night- I missed all the excitement!
I think it's great that H responded about your e-mail. I think he couldn't find words to convey how much he appreciated it because he must have been very touched by what you wrote. I know I would have if I was him. IMHO that's really positive and shows that what you did must be working- more openness about your feelings is a good way to keep going.
I agree with T about him being confused- he obviously is, but I think that's a good thing at this stage (certainly better than being committed to the wrong course of action!). The more entrenched you guys get in your friendship (stage 2) the better the chances of getting to stage 3! I like that he copped a feel while he was hugging you- thaat's definitely romance oriented behaviour. Did you know my H copped a feel of my bottom in April one night when he was hugging me? That was a little step into romance for him and mee (although it's proving to be a struggle to get any further!). It must be really hard for them to start moving back, which is one reason why I think it takes so long and why they need reassurance.
I can totally understand about not wanting to get hurt again. How do you feel about taking the risk?
