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Re: The Story of Puppy (Chocolateeyes) Puppy Dog Tails #1487101 06/19/08 03:50 PM
Joined: Jul 2007 Posts: 1,527 AL K klm Member
klm Member K Joined: Jul 2007 Posts: 1,527 AL	Can you tell us your transparency plan with your W? Does she show you email, phone bills, etc.? Kris

Re: The Story of Puppy (Chocolateeyes) klm #1487129 06/19/08 04:06 PM
Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 18,296 P Puppy Dog Tails OP Member
OP Puppy Dog Tails Member P Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 18,296	Originally Posted By: klm Can you tell us your transparency plan with your W? Does she show you email, phone bills, etc.? Yes. She quit her job immediately (OM worked there), and got a new job. She changed her cellphone #, and switched the new phone to detailed billing, which comes to me. She leaves her cellphone out for me to look at anytime I want to see it. I am allowed to GPS her car if I feel the need to do so (I never have). She shares her daily schedule with me. Hope that answers, Puppy/Choc.

Re: The Story of Puppy (Chocolateeyes) Puppy Dog Tails #1487141 06/19/08 04:12 PM
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klm Member K Joined: Jul 2007 Posts: 1,527 AL	Thanks! We no longer live anywhere near OW, she doesn't have his phone number anymore....we are now dealing with her emailing him about things that are clearly just an excuse for contact. He has been very open about it with me but she seems to be relentless. Not sure what to do about that other than ignore her as he has already asked her not to contact him. Kris

Re: The Story of Puppy (Chocolateeyes) klm #1487152 06/19/08 04:18 PM
Joined: Apr 2008 Posts: 1,961 W whatdidido Member
whatdidido Member W Joined: Apr 2008 Posts: 1,961	He could change his email.

Re: The Story of Puppy (Chocolateeyes) whatdidido #1487161 06/19/08 04:20 PM
Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 2,371 CA S Sugar and Spice Member
Sugar and Spice Member S Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 2,371 CA	There are ways to block emails as well. M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option

Re: The Story of Puppy (Chocolateeyes) Sugar and Spice #1487168 06/19/08 04:22 PM
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OP Puppy Dog Tails Member P Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 18,296	OH, I should have added that I put a keylogger on the computer, and she knows it's there.

Re: The Story of Puppy (Chocolateeyes) whatdidido #1487172 06/19/08 04:23 PM
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klm Member K Joined: Jul 2007 Posts: 1,527 AL	I have thought about that, that may have to be the next step. Kris

Re: The Story of Puppy (Chocolateeyes) klm #1487182 06/19/08 04:25 PM
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klm Member K Joined: Jul 2007 Posts: 1,527 AL	Quote: There are ways to block emails as well. I need to look into this. I would rather her just be blocked than him have to change his email. Thanks for the ideas! Quote: OH, I should have added that I put a keylogger on the computer, and she knows it's there. I so wish I would have done this when my suspicions started! Kris

Re: The Story of Puppy (Chocolateeyes) klm #1487213 06/19/08 04:36 PM
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karen43 Member K Joined: Dec 2007 Posts: 4,896 Florida	Puppy, sorry to hijack, but would you come visit my thread when you have time???? I need your advice!!!! Karen Me 53 D18, S24

Re: The Story of Puppy (Chocolateeyes) Sugar and Spice #1487272 06/19/08 05:04 PM
Joined: Feb 2001 Posts: 10,805 sgctxok Member
sgctxok Member Joined: Feb 2001 Posts: 10,805	Puppy/choc I'm glad you're a success and I'm glad you're here! $\:\)$ Others.... You may not be able to do this in the manner that puppy did....it isn't for the faint of heart. It fits into the AFTER THE LAST RESORT technique in DR. So onesizefitsall advice doesn't work. But...there IS a place for his method. peace and all good, sg Last edited by sgctxok; 06/19/08 05:04 PM. sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001

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