saffie, I hear ya on the trigger dates. Its so hard when its a monumental day already (in a good way, like D's birthday). Do you all talk about it at all, or is just quietly passing? I don't know which is worse.
I tried talking about it but he seems to think that being year 2 afterwards I should just get over it!!!!!
I am really struggling.....even to the extent of wishing I could afford to be a WAW. I seem to have gotten the "once a cheater, always a cheater" thing stuck in my brain at the moment.
I am just feeling sorry for myself.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
mc - I'm new here and didn't/don't know your whole sitch. But I am sorry you are filed now. I'm divorced, and it totally stinks. I am happy now though, and I'm sure you will be again one day too.
Just wanted to lend support as I remember that day when I was offically divorced, and my girlfriends and I went out to "celebrate" with a few drinks...and even though I thought I would really be into this silly celebration, I broke down again.
Lucky for me, that was truly the last time I broke down.
One day, you will break down, and then it will be the last time you ever do it. Hopefully that day is either soon or has already happened.
Hi MC, I have a feeling you are going to be okay, well better than okay, you're going to be great. Some lucky lady will come your way soon and think that your wife was a fool!
I think you need to get out the parachute pants instead of the leisure suits!
Hugs to you my friend, Yoyo
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
