I've been asked several times for a link to my sitch, and what my story is. Without going into all the drama, I had to change my username back in February after being banned from the forums due to a disagreement with the moderators and the PTBs.
So Chocolateeyes became Puppy Dog Tails.
Yesterday, I received permission from the DB folks to reveal my secret identity, LOL. Seriously, I appreciate their openmindedness, and especially SG's support and recommendation.
If anyone would like to read more about my sitch, you can find my threads archived here:
The short version update is that my wife and I are back together, best friends, and working on our longer-term SSM issues. She ended her affair last August, agreed to full no-contact/transparency, and after two 3-month "stays" in my divorce action, I finally withdrew it altogether a few months ago. Other than the one backslide early last September, there has been no further contact between the fetching Mrs. Puppy and her pimpled OM (and yes, I do still verify this).
Sorry for the drama, but I wanted to get back with those who have asked.
