Thank You. I admire your strength and value your input. I am not sure about the After the LRT. I would love to save my M and work it out. She is in love with the OM and wants out fast but now realizes that the financial results will not be comfortable. So she wants to cake eat as long as possible. I want to force her hand.
Yesterday was another rough day. W took the kids to see the IC that I have been taking them to for months. She never wanted me to take them and never went with us but suddenly wanted to go because she is afraid that I told them about the OM and to get the IC to push me on custody. The W seemed unhappy with the results at best. I will talk to the IC today and find out the details.
She was on the phone with OM for 2.5 Hrs last night. It is becoming a 2-3 Hr/Day event with her to the point where that is all she does. I told her that she needs to start paying her private cell bill (and others)today. She should have been paying it all along.
I went out last night on a GAL activity and had a blast. I am doing so again on Saturday. I am avoiding "dating" but am interacting with adults, having fun and laughing once in a while. This sounds bad for DBing but I am really starting to see that things will be pretty good on the other side. I assume that this is being emotionally prepared for the other side.