Watching the kids while W goes to OM

[lynn97]

I do want to fight, I am just being hopeless and numb from this. What is my next step?

Puppy do you come up with that stuff on the fly, damn I wish I would have thought to say that. But in her cloud she would still say that separation makes it ok. So in then end it will make me feel better for saying it, but wouldn't get through to her. (see more hopelessness).

I am considering getting on with my life though. Should I start looking for apartments? Should I start splitting the finances (currently I do them all). Etc.

Lynn