it was a good day, except OW kept calling H and fighting with him "because he didn't call her" so that put a damper on H's mood a bit. He still felt the need to txt her everytime she sent him something and call, yell then hang up.
Mzul...after a few nasty go rounds with this I just simply told H that while he is here or with my kids the phone is to turned on vibrate and that there is NO texting or talking to OW. It is inappropriate and just not something that I am willing to tolerate. Its a good place to start with setting boundaries.
Originally Posted By: mzul68
as it appears that I am now pregnant. I don't know what to do,, I don't want him coming back just because of this but I know I can't do it alone. I don't know if he will even come back, he agreed we do need to sit and talk, but seemed happy when I mentioned why we needed to talk. I don't know what to do,,, with everything going on right now this couldn't have happened at a worse time... I can hear OW now telling H that I did it on purpose,, hey ya know what,,this would be the last thing I wanted to happen right now,, do I consider this a blessing or just more bad timing,,,just something else to worry about now..especially since I haven't been eating much of anything the last few months, etc. so I go to the dr. july 1, to see how things are... things just get better and better...
Oh congratulations!!!!! Even at the best of times learning you are pregnant is a scary thing. All babies are blessings and few ever are the product of perfect timing. You just need to TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF! You have to eat and rest and just focus on you. As far as what OW will say...who cares? Opinions are like a$$holes, everyone has one and hers really doesn't count. You are in my prayers and listen to lwb. How are along are you?
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
