Thanks everyone, please please keep checking in on me, I'm sorry I don't post more for you guys, I'm in a difficult situation right now.
I came home from work, kids where with W at her place, she agreed to work the consession stand tonight for a friend, she complained about them asking her at the last minute, she never says no to anyone but me. D6 and D6 had softball practice while W was working the consession stand.
I knew she would be home before me, I had my softball games tonight, 2 games, we won both. before I left I wrote a note to my wife.
W, I just want you to know that I appreciate everything you do for me and the kids. I know you had a tuff day today, please try and take it easy. I know you are running in a hundred different directions. If you need me for anything all you have to do is call and I will be there for you. I'm thinking of you, I'm worried about you and you know I care about you. Jeff
I have always told her she was appreciated. when I came home from my games she was giving the kids a bath, I helped her finish up and as she was leaving she was crying, I told her I'm worried about her, told her to take is easy and I'll see her in the morning. I could tell she was holding back the tears.
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whatdidido: curious.....have you or her ever suggested she work parttime and put them in daycare parttime. Some moms are better moms when they are working in a job outside of the home.
We discussed what she wanted to do in life, and we discussed what she wanted to do with her life, I said great, we'll put the kids in daycare and she can follow her dreams, I told her I would support her in anything she ever wanted to do. This was before I knew about OM, so It wasn't a last ditch effort on my part. I was always willing to support her.
whatdidido: does she have friends outside M, she was a part of a mother of twins club, she dropped out of that, I always let her run, she went on several trips with her girl friends, and I always tried to let her do anything she ever wanted.
She has said this several times and I posted it before, She says she knows of no other man that would allow his W to run and go anywhere anytime his W wanted except me.
We all have a long haul ahead of us, good or bad it's the path we choose in life that's important.
M45 W41 M10 3/4 years D9, D6, D6, S5 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08 Date I'll forgive W for A = never
