A last resort - not sure what to do?

[TwinDad]

Julia,

I am very proud of you! It sounds like you handled the whole meeting like a champ! Not only that, but in reading your post it sounds like the meeting was very "natural" for the two of you and not realy awkward. Considering the time apart you have had this is a good thing, especially if you want to take the friend rout back into the R. Smiles and interst onhis part at a meeting that could be potentially stale is good.

You deserve to do something nice for yourself tomorrow....make sure you do it and tell us about it! You look great, you acted great, and you showed yourself to be a strong confident women. I can just about guarantee he is thinking about you.

It sounds like your H has been burying himself in his career and the relationship sitch is taking its toll. If he isn't thinking about it during the day, then it is the nights that are keeping him up. You showed compassion in complimenting him on his looks.