I've been busy preparing for my move. H asked me again last night if I would consider staying here. I told him that at this point I can't. I've already made all the arrangements to go back and that is what I must do. I pointed out that not much has changed: he's not happy with his job and many other things, the pattern of infidelity, no steps taken to deal with issues.
We also talked some more about OW. He asked me again if I wanted to call her and tell her off but I said that I am not going to resort to that. Does anyone have any opinions on this since H does approve of it - it might actually make me feel better to give her a piece of my mind.
He said he was attracted to OW because of what they shared in common professionally and it evolved from there. I asked him if he ever saw her as a step mother for our S and he said right at the beginning he did but afterwards definitely not. Yet he continued to pursue her to the very end. Sigh!!!
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz
