I still wear my rings. And if I don't feel like it, I take them off. But usually I still wear them.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
I first took off my ring back in Jan. When H noticed it, he was mad and said I was doing it only to make him upset. Even though he hasn't worn his ring since he moved out in Oct. Since then, I've moved my ring to my mom's home, when I discovered some jewelry that he gave me he took back.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
As long as she's never commented on it, I thinks it's OK. If she disapproves of it, take it off. If she just asks about it, certainly don't tell her that it represent your undying love and commitment to her. Just tell her you feel naked without it on. She might just leave it at that.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
As long as she's never commented on it, I thinks it's OK. If she disapproves of it, take it off. If she just asks about it, certainly don't tell her that it represent your undying love and commitment to her. Just tell her you feel naked without it on. She might just leave it at that.
I do feel naked without it LOL...
if she says anything (because i know she saw it on my right hand and completely off).. i will say the right thing, "well i was getting ghost finger" ..i klnow it will garner a laugh or 2
LOL isn't it funny that we've all spent time thinking about this? Another thing I notice is that I constantly check for rings on other people now. Never did that before.
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK
I do that too! No one at work knows anything about my sitch, but no ones asked me where my ring is either. I wonder if they even notice.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
Noticed a text from W that came at 4:45AM: "I'm so sorry I had to call it quits so fast, when sleepy meds kick in, there's a limit as to time :)"
I texted her don't worry about it. Got to work, and realized I had pink-eye. Ugh. Had to find my doctor's number, get an appointment, all things W used to do. I hate doctors and waiting rooms. But doing these things on my own makes me appreciate her more.
Had some fun texts back and forth, and she suggested some other things to mention to the doctor. Was very condescending about it, but she's the healthcare professional. And it is time to get back caught up on dentist, do a sleep study (W's been pushing me for that for a while), and some other stuff. I think it will mean a lot to her that I get all that done on my own.
She called me a couple more times tonight, her new phone came in and she needed my help setting it up. The conversations were great, and I'm glad we can still talk as friends. That's all I've got for now, have a great night everyone!
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK
Oh, and I forgot, but she joked that I should use my sick day to come visit her, so that was very encouraging.
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK
