I went to MC - she told me to start doing my own separation. Stop doing things with her and keep false hopes up. What do you guys think?? She made a really good dinner tonight. According to MC I should not watch TV tonite with her and go do my own thing.
Mules,
If there's a program YOU want to watch, then you should watch it. If sitting with her and watching it was something you did to spend quality time with HER, and it's not something you care to watch, then don't.
You need to pull WAYYYYY back from her, emotionally, and lovingly DETACH. Your wife needs to begin to feel what it would be like if she were to leave you. It is also a protection mechanism for YOU, as your MC noted.
