Well, as of this evening about 6pm, this is even more on my "goal" list...
H is sleeping elsewhere tonight... he says at a short-term lease apt., but as i think about it more, it's probably with OW (I have not been successful at cutting out snooping 100%, and know that her kids are away for 2 week with their dad...) I will update with more details on my thread later tonight when S12 goes to bed. H did say something to S18...I'm feeling sooo sad right now...