If you need some time to collect yourself, tell him you can't tonight, but you're available tomorrow. OR take a Xanax now, and face it head on.
Don't forget to breathe! And, we're here for you!
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."