Update - She went to the lawyer. They pretty much told her that we would have to sell the house. She said she would have to quit her job and start a career to make it work. She is really thinking about things now. I'm trying to stay away - thinking of taking the boys out for ice cream.
She said her parents offered to pay for a yoga class for her so she can get her own time. She said to me that that was never a problem with me - that if she needs time that I support her. I'm dumbfounded - it is true but she never admits that.
I went to MC - she told me to start doing my own separation. Stop doing things with her and keep false hopes up. What do you guys think?? She made a really good dinner tonight. According to MC I should not watch TV tonite with her and go do my own thing.
M 43 W 44 M 17 T 22 S16,12,9 Bomb 2/05/08 I served her 1/06/09 S'd 3/15/09 D'd 12/21/09
"Tough times don't last, tough people do." --My Dad to me years ago, me to my boys now.