He does nothing to assist with anything but then is upset when I make a decision on my own.
This seems to be par for the course. Same thing in my sitch. I would ask and ask and finally just do it myself or make the decision myself. I think part of this is the WAS simply wanting to contribute nothing to the M. The other part is justification for leaving.. "See what a bad decision-maker SueS (or LO, or lwb) is??? I couldn't possibly stay married to someone like that!"