trying to get SOB to understand that this is sometimes how the LD spouse feels (that they are just a sex receptical
I also agree with this and I said that too. No harm sweetie.... I like that this forum is getting more posts too and every post can help others to heal or find wisdom or just plain laugh.... etc etc etc...... You know what I mean.
I see what you are saying ..... yeah his Wife probably does feel like that.... his feelings are real as are hers its just the hope they can meet in the middle and find solutions.....
SB~ hope everything went well tonite with the MRS. I also believe you need to get a notebook and write down small goals ...
IE, I will kiss my Wife on the neck and she will kiss me back...
I dunno you will have better things to put in there than I can come up with. But is is a start.... Find what works and stop doing what hasnt....