Bring on the Rain - Part 3

[SueS]

Wow everyone! Thanks for the responses.

I've wondered at times if my H thinks that he'll just move with me if things fall apart with OW or he decides not to live with her. It's certainly not beyond him to do that. I've also wondered if he'll end up just getting a place of his own or with a friend, leaving OW high and dry. That is not beyond him either. Not that I would feel bad for OW if that happened.

My H emailed me after our conversation today with a link to another apartment, telling me to look at those. He also said...because you asked about what I'm doing...Are you in a hurry to get rid of me? I had a sick feeling run through me. One of those....I'm finally getting in a better place for myself now and you're concerned that I'm hurrying you out?...kind of feeling. I called him after work. I told him that I'd checked on those places and they also did not get a high rating and you have to have top grade credit, which unfortunately I (we) do not have right now. He said...Oh, you should be fine now. I said, why did you have to ask me the other question? He just said, I'm just kidding. I told him that I asked what he was doing because we still have a lot to figure out and we need to talk to D4 and talk abut what to say to her. H was silent. He did as he always does and changed the subject, talking about leftovers that D4 and I could eat.

I checked our computer today and H had gotten a link for some living room furniture. OW must have seen something she wants. I really think that H might be feeling the pinch from her because she seems to be under the impression that H is going to facilitate their whole move. It appears she thinks they'll be buying new furniture together too. I don't know if she knows that he's in the process of paying for his DUI. So that's a lot of his hard earned money meant for their move....gone!

Well, D4 wants to go to the park and I promised her we'd go.

Thanks again everyone!

SueS