Hey girl. You are doing so well. I love that you wrote him that 'love' note about the body wash. H uses my hair gel sometimes. Ew!! lol
You are doing so well. Don't let H's anger get to you. Let it wash off of you, and let it go. Honestly, the path you are walking is the ONLY path in which H would come back. Sadly, he will probably be a day late and many dollars short.
You are being strong and standing up for yourself. Good job.