I know this has worked for Puppy.....but if you want hope of your H also coming back to the church as well as you....I don't think wouldn't do it. YOU'RE dealing with a man with an ego. And QUITE an ego at that.
ALTHOUGH, I'll bet you're going to say folks already know.
Puppy has some good advice in lots of place, and they revolve around setting limits and holding to them.......and I think that's a good idea for you.
Spend your time on getting yourself back. I KNOW YOU'VE GOT WHAT IT TAKES.
And I think he'll have enough ego that if it isn't impossible, he'll want to prove himself.
At that point, you might not want him, so you might have to also work on compassion and real forgiveness....which you know enough that it isn't as easy as it sounds.....so having your friend do the HT on your is a GREAT idea.
You go girlfriend!
btw--- I LOVE YOUR DISPLAYNAME!!! I WISH I had thought of it!!!
Last edited by sgctxok; 06/18/0811:14 PM.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001