H always does this to me. He does nothing to assist with anything but then is upset when I make a decision on my own
Wow, once again, Sue, our H's are similar. This has always been the way for us too. I asked and asked, got nothing, made a decision and was criticized. H tried to do it once this summer (criticized the new mower I bought *which I love by the way*) and he stopped himself, realizing he has no say in stuff like this anymore. Thank him for his opinions and change the subject.
Sara is right too. Your H is shocked you are making concrete decisions to move on. Cake eater and smack talk. That's all its been until now.