I know you are right as is everyone else, somethings on that end of the spectrum should be left alone by a man and I should just be there when needed and not take it personally.
The more I thought about it today that was an unfair expectancy on my part, she at least acknowledge my birthday and that I am greatful for she could have blown it off but she chose not to.
I think that is a good idea, put myself out there and then just be there if needed would be the best thing to do.
Not expecting anything really I do mean that all I can do is ask, will let you all know