yes, I'm still feeling sad about h, but his behavior is making it easier for me to let go. he's not the man I have lived with for 7 years.
I'm db'ing for me and d. period. I was unhappy in the marriage long before the bomb was dropped and I can see that now. this is forcing me to GAL, things I should have done long, long ago.
As scary and hard as that is for me, it's time for me to grow up.
